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Oprah</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2018-01-10T16:10:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2017/12/08/when-you-cant-take-a-vacation-take-a-mental-one/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/scottish-thistle_fotor-e1512700394526.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Thistle!</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/mental-vacation-thistle-captioned.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Thistle!</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/outlander_title_card.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Outlander</image:title><image:caption>The TV series (on Starz and Netflix) is also really good, but I hope they don't pull at "Game of Thrones" and pass the 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Balance</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/37167574396_8ed5abbdd0_b-e1511231607939.jpg</image:loc><image:title>37167574396_8ed5abbdd0_b</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-11-21T19:08:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2016/10/28/and-you-just-begin/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/img_0458.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_0458</image:title><image:caption>Steps in Dubrovnik, Croatia, a city with many hidden staircases and secret walkways. Photo credit: me! </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/4653592122_238facaf32_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4653592122_238facaf32_b</image:title><image:caption>Bath Road Milestone by Peter Reed on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-01-12T17:59:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2016/10/08/postcards-from-beyond/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/img_5534.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_5534</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-10-28T02:12:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2013/03/10/repeat-after-me-food-is-not-the-devil/</loc><lastmod>2016-10-04T02:02:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/home/</loc><lastmod>2016-08-19T23:43:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/09/24/the-house-that-taught-me-style/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/le-corbusier-lc1-strap-chair-7872_2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>le-corbusier-lc1-strap-chair-7872_2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/tumblr_lyxtvqfwey1qgjogco1_500.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Living Room</image:title><image:caption>Not exactly, but close. From </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/clients-rodeodrivedeals-photo_sets-74145-img_8803.jpg</image:loc><image:title>clients-rodeodrivedeals-photo_sets-74145-IMG_8803</image:title><image:caption>Like my limited edition patent Coach Gallery Tote that still looks as good as the summer I bought it, 12 years ago.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-08-18T15:01:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/08/17/white-walls/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/img_3641.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Goethe's Colour Wheel</image:title><image:caption>Nursery colour inspiration from Goethe's Colour Wheel</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/img_3429.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden's Big Girl Bed</image:title><image:caption>Cheeseball loving her "big girl bed"</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/lindens-room-collage-e1439778132561.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden's Room Collage</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-16T23:21:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/04/28/shades-of-brown-and-gray/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/5315242365_bfb24f41bb_b-e1430237839510.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Baltimore Love Project</image:title><image:caption>Featured Image: Baltimore Love Project. Photo by Krapow on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-22T17:55:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/01/16/feature-friday-let-them-play/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/let-them-play.jpg</image:loc><image:title>LET THEM PLAY</image:title><image:caption>Original photo by G Travels on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/13646947194_50358f4bdc_k-e1421373421369.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Olympic Park Spring 2014 by G Travels</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:41:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/01/27/develop-discipline/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/45836650_ca2151903e_b-e1422414460352.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6:30am Start the Day</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/discipline.jpg</image:loc><image:title>DISCIPLINE</image:title><image:caption>"6:30am Start the Day" by Jacqueline on Flickr (text added)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/8024334843_cf0cf28ac3_z.jpg</image:loc><image:title>8024334843_cf0cf28ac3_z</image:title><image:caption>Work that discipline muscle! "Dumbells" by Garen Meguerian on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/6007445855_0396cf29f1_z.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ballard // messy bed</image:title><image:caption>A comfy bed is so hard to leave. "Ballard // messy bed" by Ellie LoNardo on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:41:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/02/10/hallelujah-jeff-buckley-and-human-achievement-as-collaboration/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/2953576996_e3f97a0fc7_b-e1423546713739.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2953576996_e3f97a0fc7_b</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/2953576996_e3f97a0fc7_z.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lake Champlain</image:title><image:caption>"Light on the Lake" by Rob Friesel on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/5058172359_da89cbdb84_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lake Champlain</image:title><image:caption>Lake Champlain by Malcolm K. on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/1923520_533636675862_3396_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Montreal</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:41:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/02/17/on-realizing-that-im-actually-kind-of-a-control-freak/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/control-freak.jpg</image:loc><image:title>CONTROL FREAK</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/4734829999_8086319b4e_b3-e1424226021791.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4734829999_8086319b4e_b</image:title><image:caption>I have been known to colour block my books...
Photo by Juhan Sonan on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/4734829999_8086319b4e_b2-e1424227303426.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4734829999_8086319b4e_b</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/4734829999_8086319b4e_b1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4734829999_8086319b4e_b</image:title><image:caption>I have been known to colour block my books...
Photo by Juhan Sonan on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/4734829999_8086319b4e_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4734829999_8086319b4e_b</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/3894455790_1a3d2efa87_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>3894455790_1a3d2efa87_b</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Eyeliam on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_20150211_161903888-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jean-Louis</image:title><image:caption>Jean-Louis. My favorite Bobolink cheese. Photo by Bobolink Dairy. You can order their cheese and bread ONLINE! GO THERE NOW.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:41:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/02/25/rebranding-the-terrible-twos/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/terrible-twos.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Terrible Twos</image:title><image:caption>Linden went through a "planking" phase of just stopping and laying down in the middle of a walk. So fun.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/5456129071_7b35a8777b_z.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sad Toddler</image:title><image:caption>"Sad Toddler" by Nate Grigg on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_3225-e1424838807348.jpg</image:loc><image:title>At Ikea</image:title><image:caption>At Ikea, with the dog she named "BeeSee". </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:40:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/03/02/survival-mode-in-the-winter-sickness-sinkhole/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/winter-sickness.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Winter Sickness</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_3223-e1425350152114.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3223</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_2722.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2722</image:title><image:caption>Survival Mode Meal...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_1764.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1764</image:title><image:caption>Yeah, Winter, you're pretty. But I'm done.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:40:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/03/10/using-your-asshole-moments-to-cultivate-compassion/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/asshole-moments.jpg</image:loc><image:title>VLUU L100, M100  / Samsung L100, M100</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/1024px-terminal_e_waiting_area-e1426036495454.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1024px-Terminal_E_Waiting_area</image:title><image:caption>George Bush Intercontinental. From Wikicommons</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:40:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/04/21/do-you-believe-in-signs/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/16654525301_91e86974fd_k-e1429629394191.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Spring Crocus</image:title><image:caption>From the decay... "Spring Crocus" by Swallowtail Garden Seeds on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/496122012_f09eb4c127_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rai Lei Beach</image:title><image:caption>Rai Lei Beach. "Dusk at the Bar" by S B on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:40:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/04/16/round-two-some-news/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/ultrasound-baby2-13-weeks-1.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>UltraSound baby2 13 weeks 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/family-e1429206833408.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Family. -)</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T16:40:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/07/08/10-year-reunion/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/ten-year-reunion.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Ten Year Reunion</image:title><image:caption>Friends! </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/11406583_10100296837916432_2533187572344796325_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>11406583_10100296837916432_2533187572344796325_n</image:title><image:caption>Friends!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/3124740517_17ef3ccdf8_b-e1436321994592.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Brokehn Mirror</image:title><image:caption>Feature Image "Brokehn Mirror" by Agustín Ruiz on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/loyola-university-campus.jpg</image:loc><image:title>loyola-university-campus</image:title><image:caption>Gorgeous Loyola University Maryland campus</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/2478_533636760692_5215_n_fotor.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mirror Selfie</image:title><image:caption>self-reflection</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-15T13:44:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/07/13/unbreakable-kimmy-schmidt-seek-safely/</loc><lastmod>2015-09-09T16:52:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/what-is-the-self-styled-life/the-self-styled-life-on-pinterest/</loc><lastmod>2015-06-20T03:26:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/05/28/taking-the-first-steps/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/7985516656_fd5c7819cb_z.jpg</image:loc><image:title>7985516656_fd5c7819cb_z</image:title><image:caption>"Ausable Chasm" by Daryll Kenyon on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/taking-the-first-steps-caption1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Taking the First Steps</image:title><image:caption>"Footprint" by Harry (Howard) Potts on Flickr. (image flipped and text added)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/taking-the-first-steps-caption.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Taking the First Steps CAPTION</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/16165941650_908ac3fab7_k-e1432825146281.jpg</image:loc><image:title>16165941650_908ac3fab7_k</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-28T15:19:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/05/05/signature-style-the-next-steps-capsule-wardrobes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/16253641094_37ada32009_k-e1430793841839.jpg</image:loc><image:title>16253641094_37ada32009_k</image:title><image:caption>Featured Image from Holly Bourne on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/photo-45.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Wardrobe Purge</image:title><image:caption>The Wardrobe Purge (the remaining clothes in the closet still look like a lot, but it's winter, maternity, and non-maternity all mixed in.)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-07T13:53:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/24/on-being-an-ok-mom/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/being-an-ok-mom.jpg</image:loc><image:title>BEING AN OK MOM</image:title><image:caption>This kid used to love getting wheeled around everywhere.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/8aa59e7e2ab77d22f766bd9ba1e05665.jpg</image:loc><image:title>8aa59e7e2ab77d22f766bd9ba1e05665</image:title><image:caption>My Dream Sofa from Montauk Sofa</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/img_1309.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1309</image:title><image:caption>This kid used to love getting wheeled around everywhere.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/img_0642.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0642</image:title><image:caption>Couch afternoons were easy when she was a teeny newborn.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-14T03:39:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2013/02/21/a-self-styled-birth/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/birth-story.jpg</image:loc><image:title>BIRTH STORY</image:title><image:caption>a self-styled (home) birth story on the self-styled life</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/img_0558.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Getting weighed.</image:title><image:caption>All 8 lbs 2 oz f Linden on the scale.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/img_8058.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_8058</image:title><image:caption>Linden's Room, waiting for her arrival!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/img_8631.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dominican</image:title><image:caption>In the Dominican Republic in January.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/img_0559.jpg</image:loc><image:title>First Family Pic</image:title><image:caption>Our first family portrait.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/img_0554.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0554</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/img_6529.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Right after Linden was born</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-05-26T18:23:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/08/19/how-to-become-a-stay-at-home-momdad-in-5-not-at-all-easy-steps/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/sahm.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SAHM</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/img_1791.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Two babies sleeping.</image:title><image:caption>Two babies sleeping at one time: The Holy Grail. (Baby #2's hat-covered head is just visible at the bottom... I was wearing her.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/img_2537.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sand Castles</image:title><image:caption>I build elaborate sand structures that get destroyed in a matter of seconds. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/img_2524.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden Smiling</image:title><image:caption>This kid. So worth it.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2025-01-02T19:34:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/01/12/changing-back/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/4346440352_fbc642a579_o-e1421120765793.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Yoga Time by Werner Moser</image:title><image:caption>Featured Image attribution: Yoga Time by Werner Moser on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-28T03:23:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/01/06/the-truth-about-being-a-stay-at-home-parent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/img_3087-e1420602471750.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3087</image:title><image:caption>Sure, I'm a great mom. My kid still hates me sometimes, though.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/img_3166-e1420601707489.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3166</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/g3lo4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Disaster</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-10T15:31:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2015/01/02/feature-friday-bruce-mau-on-the-power-of-design/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/1234627192_4ca93182bd_b-e1420210365182.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Seattle Public Library</image:title><image:caption>Featured Image of Seattle Public Library by John Zacherle on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-27T21:48:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/12/30/developing-a-signature-style/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/natural-style-2.png</image:loc><image:title>natural style 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/natural-signature-style.png</image:loc><image:title>Natural Signature Style</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/img_1891.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mommy Slob</image:title><image:caption>If I am not careful, I will look like this every day. Messy room included.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-03T03:40:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/12/09/make-a-plan-to-actually-keep-that-new-years-resolution/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/8323861056_8eedaca051_h-e1418182438653.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Moet &amp; Chandon</image:title><image:caption>"Moet &amp; Chandon" by Ivo Posthumus on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-10T04:02:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/11/11/serious-talk-on-the-internet-ineffective-or-important/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/10670797956_83e47db5fe_k-e1415716724101.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Photo by Alejandro Pinto</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/uni920_facebookgraphic_likefeed_fa.jpg</image:loc><image:title>UNICEF</image:title><image:caption>From UNICEF's "Likes Don't Save Lives" campaign</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/e0u2c.gif</image:loc><image:title>Ice Bucket Challenge Fail</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-02T03:29:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/11/17/dear-reader-i-want-your-feedback/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/443545349_2a41fa838a_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>"Tome Reader" by QQ Li on Flickr</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-02T03:29:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/12/01/the-stranger-creepy-song-solid-message/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/15654056312_930f2c74df_k-e1417490121737.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Broken Mask</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/207436_5032692230_449_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Hunky Hubby</image:title><image:caption>Hunky Hubby</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-02T19:20:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/11/27/on-meditating-and-a-beginner-level-meditation-technique/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/8682148234_2bd3813893_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>"Dandelion Seeds in Air" by Rosanne Haaland on Flickr</image:title><image:caption>"Dandelion Seeds in Air" by Rosanne Haaland on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/3877957416_9308895411_b-e1416883108497.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Shiva Meditation</image:title><image:caption>"Shiva Meditation" By Angela Marie Henriette on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/5411821559_ab37e1dfc8_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meditation Bowl</image:title><image:caption>"Meditation Bowl" by Suzanne Schroeter on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-02T03:49:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/11/28/feature-friday-productivity-habits-from-pick-any-two/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/5750960959_529a1a70b4_b-e1417183075567.jpg</image:loc><image:title>To Do List</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-28T14:02:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/11/24/organizational-tools-paper-or-digital/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/evernote_logo_4c-lrg.png</image:loc><image:title>evernote_logo_4c-lrg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/ataglance.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ataglance</image:title><image:caption>I believe she uses these At-a-Glance ones...</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-02T03:47:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/11/17/go-to-the-dentist-the-importance-of-taking-care-of-yourself/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/5038162929_4c5f7305a4_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Spa in Bali</image:title><image:caption>"Spa in Bali" by Exotissimo Travel on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-44.jpg</image:loc><image:title>selfie</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/378605_704608546862_832040881_n-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Photo by Emily Chastain</image:title><image:caption>Seriously, I can balance pretty much anything on my fingers. 
Photo by Emily Chastain.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/378605_704608546862_832040881_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Photo by Emily Chastain</image:title><image:caption>For real--I can balance pretty much anything on my fingers. Photo by Emily Chastain. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-19T04:32:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/11/04/book-review-wild-by-cheryl-strayed/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/9588019192_c1629531c2_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bridge of the Gods</image:title><image:caption>"Bridge of the Gods" where Strayed's PCT hike ends
Photo by Markus Spiering on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/6146254254_e2938a886a_o-e1415156698908.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The Pacific Crest Trail</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Peter Stevens on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/books-cheryl-strayed-wild-book-widea.jpg</image:loc><image:title>"Wild" by Cheryl Strayed</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-17T06:20:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/10/28/when-our-dream-life-appears-rather-ordinary/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/3839803741_f1e809959d_z.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Maserati</image:title><image:caption>Maserati Front by Duncan Brown on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/14195704818_27619bc47c_k-e1414546627448.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Daily chores in a small town by Peter on Flickr</image:title><image:caption>"Daily chores in a small town" by Peter on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-05T03:29:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/10/08/five-years-of-grief-and-getting-on/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/funfactfriday.png</image:loc><image:title>FunFactFriday</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/0782-vi.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kirby Speech</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-15T00:17:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/10/01/happy-birthday-to-my-two-year-old/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_2650.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Funny Face.</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/linden-with-chickens.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden with chickens</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_2521.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2521</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1682.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1682</image:title><image:caption>First triumphant steps.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1017.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden at the store.</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1172.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Happy Eating.</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_0677.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Stone</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_0568.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0568</image:title><image:caption>Squishy newborn Linden.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-04T03:14:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/09/16/blog-hop-part-1-peering-into-the-window/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/7006263334_32806dc393_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>VitraHaus</image:title><image:caption>VitraHaus by Kay Gaensler on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/photo.png</image:loc><image:title>Blog Notes on Phone</image:title><image:caption>As you can see, the bad ideas will just sit on the list for a while...</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-25T02:26:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/09/09/the-open-letter-to-oprah-a-follow-up/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/access-revoked.png</image:loc><image:title>Access Revoked.</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-10T01:35:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/08/26/in-defence-of-aging/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/297467624_6549948079_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Old Woman</image:title><image:caption>"Old Woman" by Petr and Bara Ruzicka on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2022-11-18T14:36:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/08/29/why-im-signing-the-seek-safely-promise/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/seek-safely-promise.png</image:loc><image:title>SEEK Safely Promise</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-04T16:43:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/06/04/what-is-real-beauty-the-contour-makeup-trend/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/makeup-comparison.png</image:loc><image:title>Makeup comparison</image:title><image:caption>Makeup Free (top left), daily makeup (top right), getting ready for a wedding (bottom)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/beauty.png</image:loc><image:title>Beauty</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/8553028031_da054cfd15_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>8553028031_da054cfd15_b</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Neon Tommy on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-29T17:51:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/08/06/hatching-a-plan-to-live-small/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/8367839709_db37ad6cc7_k.jpg</image:loc><image:title>8367839709_db37ad6cc7_k</image:title><image:caption>Tiny house in a windstorm by Tammy Strobel on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/025.jpg</image:loc><image:title>025</image:title><image:caption>Jessica Helgerson's 540 sq. ft. home to 4 in Oregon. Photo by Lincoln Barber, from Birch and Bird Vintage Home Interiors blog</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/elm-photo-slide-003_e9a51ac4-7f09-457f-9982-44fca367b51d_grande.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tumbleweed Company ELM design</image:title><image:caption>Tumbleweed Tiny House Company "Elm" model</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-20T02:44:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/06/24/guest-post-at-atelier-edele-meditations-on-post-baby-bodies/</loc><lastmod>2014-07-01T07:57:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/06/23/defining-moments-the-moments-about-which-i-will-forever-write/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/serpiente_alquimica.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Serpiente_alquimica</image:title><image:caption>Ouroboros drawing from a late medieval Byzantine Greek alchemical manuscript. Fol. 196 of Codex Parisinus graecus 2327, a copy (made by Theodoros Pelecanos (Pelekanos) of Corfu in Khandak, Iraklio, Crete in 1478) of a lost manuscript of an early medieval tract which was attributed to Synosius (Synesius) of Cyrene (d. 412). Wikipedia</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/barb-dickie-ears.png</image:loc><image:title>Barb Dickie - Ears</image:title><image:caption>Photo Courtesy of Barbara Dickie</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-24T00:22:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/06/18/how-often-do-you-praise-yourself/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/img_2249.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden in the morning.</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/img_2289.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden Planks on the sidewalk.</image:title><image:caption>It wasn't this day.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/img_0915.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden sleeping. Parenthood.</image:title><image:caption>That's more like it.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-01T08:03:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/06/13/happy-fathers-day/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/down-the-aisle-ch.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Down the Aisle CH</image:title><image:caption>My Dad and I at my wedding!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-16T02:54:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/06/09/notes-of-an-exasperated-would-be-home-buyer/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/ridiculous-real-estate.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Ridiculous real estate postcard</image:title><image:caption>This sort of thing comes in the mail daily from local real estate agents. Jerks.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/2960675738_50952cbb1c_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>"what Subprime Crisis" by woodleywonderworks on Flickr</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/homebuying-table-of-doom1.png</image:loc><image:title>Homebuying Table of Doom</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/dream-job.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dream Job</image:title><image:caption>Source</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-19T03:22:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/05/02/conversations-with-my-mom-on-her-self-styled-life-part-1-2/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/img_01442-e1303264173904.jpg</image:loc></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-05T04:26:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/05/27/an-open-letter-to-oprah-regarding-your-silence-on-james-ray/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kirby-main-copy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kirby main copy</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-01-29T16:17:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/03/long-walks/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/20140403-125353.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20140403-125353.jpg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/20140403-125127.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20140403-125127.jpg</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:25:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/03/24/the-millennial-generation-as-parents/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_1258.jpg</image:loc><image:title>At Target</image:title><image:caption>The consumerism starts young!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_1468.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden and Mike </image:title><image:caption>This was on Instagram, obviously. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_1205.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden eating chicken</image:title><image:caption>8 Month Old Linden enjoying dinner--baby-led weanng style (don't know what that is? Google it.)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:21:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/09/mapping-the-days-of-some-of-historys-greats/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/ben-franklin-daily-schedule-infographic.png</image:loc><image:title>Ben Franklin Daily Schedule Infographic</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:20:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/05/07/look-up-the-viral-video-reminding-us-that-real-life-is-not-the-pings-from-our-phone/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/2743877537_2f5a3c7d02_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Paris Clocks</image:title><image:caption>Paris Clocks by Nick on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:20:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/03/05/love-at-first-site/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_3012.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Toronto from the Harbour.</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_2994.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2994</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_5094.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Grazing Sheep in Ayrshire</image:title><image:caption>Cities have their strong points, but they can't match the peace of an idyllic countryside.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_4981.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Chelsea, London</image:title><image:caption>Yeah, I'd take a flat in Chelsea for a while.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_3191.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bermuda</image:title><image:caption>High on my return-to list: Bermuda, with its sunny pastels and breezy Colonial style. Gorgeous.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:20:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/04/18/the-ideal-self/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/297186_10150877087085328_681710327_21230200_1522256621_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Singing at a Wedding</image:title><image:caption>So while I'll always sing and maybe even daydream about touring around the world as a famous singer, I'm not going to bank on that image!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/198362_506726818432_20101889_30043703_2973_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Teaching in Thailand</image:title><image:caption>An older iteration of myself: when I was a teacher in Thailand (2005-06)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:19:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/03/19/clutter-overload-time-to-spring-clean/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/5738588913_96d4016092_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>"Hanging Washing in the Snow"</image:title><image:caption>"Hanging Washing in the Snow" from the State Library of Victoria Collections on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/4371919184_4aa55a6ee2_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4371919184_4aa55a6ee2_b</image:title><image:caption>"Cleaning Supplies for Spring Cleaning" from Susy Morris on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/18768224_348326f4e1_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>18768224_348326f4e1_b</image:title><image:caption>"wtf-am-i-supposed-to-do-wit" by kris krüg on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_1789.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden Mess</image:title><image:caption>Linden helping me "organize."</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:19:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/01/layaway-dreams-life-is-short-but-you-have-plenty-of-time/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/4259878036_d2931c5b2e_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>gg layaway</image:title><image:caption>Photo by J E Theriot on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/mjaxms1inza2mjviyzc3zgjlnmm0-e1396743904394.png</image:loc><image:title>MjAxMS1iNzA2MjViYzc3ZGJlNmM0</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:19:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/05/10/happy-mothers-day/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/mothersday.png</image:loc><image:title>MothersDay</image:title><image:caption>Mother Flowchart from the Huffington Post</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/photo-41.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo-41</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-29T00:18:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/30/make-time-how-digital-communication-is-turning-us-into-shitty-friends/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/zagreb-clockmaketime.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Zagreb clockMakeTime</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/4679197598_fcd65ae739_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>From the Library and Archives of Canada</image:title><image:caption>Photo by Harry Rowed, from the Library and Archives of Canada on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-05T14:48:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/what-is-the-self-styled-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/cropped-self-styled-life-logo.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>cropped-self-styled-life-logo.jpeg</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-01T16:57:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/02/the-self-styled-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/img_0465.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carefree</image:title><image:caption>My toes, loving the Croatian sun in Dubrovnik.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-05T12:51:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/10/self-styling-inspiration-a-how-to-from-my-sister-kirby/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/kirbysurfboard.jpg</image:loc><image:title>KirbySurfboard</image:title><image:caption>My sister Kirby, full of life.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/img_2640-e1299814860727.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kirby's Work</image:title><image:caption>An example of Kirby's painting work. (it's not a marble wall-she made it look that way)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:04:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/18/the-move-to-a-foreign-preferably-european-country-and-buy-a-spectacular-fixer-upper-villa-book/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/img_0688.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0688</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/big.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Under the Tuscan Sun cover</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/img_0830.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Croatian Sphinx</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/img_0829.jpg</image:loc><image:title>For Sale in Zadar</image:title><image:caption>For sale in Zadar, Croatia! (after our honeymoon there, now my "dilapidated villa country" of choice)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:04:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/30/coming-up-crocuses/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/photo-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Crocuses</image:title><image:caption>My Crocuses!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:04:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/04/04/job-searching/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/ikea-logo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ikea-logo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:03:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/04/13/procrastination-productivity-progress/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/photo1-e1302745070509.jpg</image:loc><image:title>My Desk</image:title><image:caption>My desk, recently cleaned and organized. Now a happy space!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>My Desk</image:title><image:caption>My desk, recently organized and cleaned!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2020-04-28T03:13:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/04/28/the-gap-year/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/sienna-2000.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sienna 2000</image:title><image:caption>High school me, ready to steal a moped and move to Italy!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/on-hua-shan.jpg</image:loc><image:title>On Hua Shan</image:title><image:caption>On Hua Shan, Shaanxi Province, China</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/bamboo-grubs-e1304034538740.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bamboo Grubs</image:title><image:caption>I knew what these were before I ate them--grubs fresh from a piece of bamboo!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/thai-toilet.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Thai toilet</image:title><image:caption>Just a demonstration! Thai "toilet"</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:03:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/05/03/life-is-precious/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/big-sky-over-loyola.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Big Sky Over Loyola</image:title><image:caption>Big Sky Over Loyola -- my senior year dorm</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:01:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/05/25/am-i-an-entrepreneur/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/img_2569-e1306380344970.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Graduation 2010</image:title><image:caption>My very supportive husband, with me at my graduation last year.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/johnandjulielivingroom.jpg</image:loc><image:title>JohnandJulieLivingroom</image:title><image:caption>Mjölk owners' cottage livingroom. Photo by Stacey Brandford, from June 2011 House &amp; Home magazine</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:01:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/05/27/gardening-for-food-fun-and-general-fabulousness/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/front-of-house-may.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Front of House</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/img_4553.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cucumber Obelisk</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/img_4552.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Veggie Garden</image:title><image:caption>Nascent garden</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/its-complicated-garden-e1306202609824.jpg</image:loc><image:title>It's Complicated garden</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:01:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/09/places-of-meaning-and-sometimes-mourning/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4703.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Living room Corner</image:title><image:caption>Topping off the set of Jill Logan prints is a piece of the oar that shattered when we were rowing out to scatter Kirby's ashes in Sag Harbor.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_0647.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Eating fish</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T04:00:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/16/keep-things-simple/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_1905.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kirby with the bagpipes</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/0133-vi.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Something Blue</image:title><image:caption>Kirby providing me with my "something blue"--an aquamarine ring that we had set in Thailand and I have now.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/0459-vi.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0459-vi</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_0346.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dubrovnik Hotel</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:59:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/20/benjamin-franklins-daily-schedule/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4775-e1308592610429.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The Daily Planners</image:title><image:caption>Years of half-baked attempts at getting organized. (note how they got smaller over the years--this year's is on top)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/franklin-schedule.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Franklin Schedule</image:title><image:caption>Franklin's "scheme of employment" </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:59:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/26/veggie-garden-update/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_48591.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cucumber grabbing on</image:title><image:caption>Determined climber!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4862.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mystery plant</image:title><image:caption>We don't remember what this is...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4857.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mike in Garden</image:title><image:caption>Mike, checkin' out the cucumbers!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4858.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Horseradish</image:title><image:caption>We saw the horseradish when picking out veggies and just figure, "why not?" because I love me some horseradish!  We'll see what happens...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4861.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ground cherry</image:title><image:caption>Ground Cherry</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4859.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Grabbing hold</image:title><image:caption>Determination</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4865.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cucumber Obelisk kicking butt</image:title><image:caption>Climbing Cucumbers</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/photo2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Happy Garden!</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:58:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/30/the-details-downsizing-prioritizing-and-living-with-less/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_3861.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Christmas Dog</image:title><image:caption>This is really just an excuse to show this pic. But I'll go with: note the carpet--a purchase we agonized over for months but that I still love every time I see it.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4866.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jars</image:title><image:caption>Budget Jars</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:58:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/07/05/the-five-year-plan/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/img_1819-e1309918788382.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Gateway to the Sea</image:title><image:caption>Unknowns can be scary but also exciting.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/25494_573337120852_20101889_33844740_7917036_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ladder Towel Rack</image:title><image:caption>My ladder towel rack: a successful DIY project</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/img_3709.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Moose Hit</image:title><image:caption>Unforeseen... like hitting a moose? (no joke, my husband hit a moose last fall. He was fine, thankfully!)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/img_0708.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Konoba Menego</image:title><image:caption>Unforgettable dinner at Konoba Menego in Hvartown, Croatia, on our honeymoon. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:58:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/07/08/daily-schedule-progress/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/screen-shot-2011-07-06-at-2-13-54-pm.png</image:loc><image:title>My Daily Schedule</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:58:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/07/14/city-or-country/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/img_1413.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Icy Trees</image:title><image:caption>Sun filtering through some icy trees at my parents' house in New York</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/jackies-painting1-e1310699773474.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jackie's Painting</image:title><image:caption>In my current country house, a painting of the country house I grew up in</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/jackies-painting.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jackie's Painting</image:title><image:caption>In my current country house, a painting of the country house I grew up in! </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/mikebecks-in-le-verendrye.jpg</image:loc><image:title>MikeBecks in La Vérendrye</image:title><image:caption>Mike and Becks crossing a bridge in La Vérendrye Reserve, Quebec.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/motorbike-taxi-kao-san.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Motorbike taxi Khao San</image:title><image:caption>On the hectic Khao San Road in Bangkok</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/hotel-de-ville.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Hotel de Ville</image:title><image:caption>Out the window of our first Montreal apartment.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:57:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/08/back-to-real-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5236.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Phonebooths</image:title><image:caption>Full disclosure: this is Edinburgh, not London, but still cool!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/photo-1-e1312821989146.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Becks Playing</image:title><image:caption>And I played hide-and-seek-kong with Becks (who was obviously very excited to play)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5339.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mike, Mom and I on Loch Lomond</image:title><image:caption>In front of Loch Lomond, on our way to the Highlands</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:56:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/09/collecting-patterns-in-london/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5045.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Conservatories</image:title><image:caption>A common sight in England--many houses have these conservatories on the back. Lovely.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_4981.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Chelsea street</image:title><image:caption>Evening in Chelsea</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_50231.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Canal Bridge </image:title><image:caption>Bridge from a boat on Regents Canal</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5023.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Canal Bridge </image:title><image:caption>From a boat on the Regents Canal</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5036.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Big Ben</image:title><image:caption>Below Big Ben</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5013.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Giraffe</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_4997.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Snake</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_4948.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ancient Sumerian patterns in the British Museum</image:title><image:caption>Cuneiform, itself very pretty, and a lovely feather motif on this Sumerian tablet in the British Museum</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_49161.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Royal Courts of Justice</image:title><image:caption>Wall surrounding the Royal Courts of Justice</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_4916.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Royal Courts of Justice</image:title><image:caption>Outside of the Royal Courts of Justice</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:55:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/11/meet-charles-rennie-macintosh/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5253.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Glasgow Corner</image:title><image:caption>And there's an interesting blend of old and new in Glasgow.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5267.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Western face of the Glasgow School of Art</image:title><image:caption>Afternoon sun hitting the western face of the Glasgow School of Art, with its huge windows</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/school-of-art-hallway.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>School of Art Hallway</image:title><image:caption>Bright hallway in the School of Art (picture by Eric Thornburn, The Glasgow Picture Library)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5411.jpg</image:loc><image:title>At the bottom of the U</image:title><image:caption>Teeny house tucked into a u-shaped valley in the Highlands</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5263.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Window Detail, School of Art</image:title><image:caption>These wrought iron flourishes on the windows of the School of Art portray a rose in various stages of opening (apparently)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5322.jpg</image:loc><image:title>House for An Art Lover, nook</image:title><image:caption>Love this little nook in the MacIntosh House for an Art Lover</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5260.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Willow Tearoom</image:title><image:caption>A MacIntosh font on the sign for The Willow Tearoom (he designed the tearoom, too)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5251.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The Barras</image:title><image:caption>The Barras, a Glasgow flea market so named because merchants would haul their wares in wheel barrows (barras')</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:55:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/16/594/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5118.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sunny Scotland</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5142.jpg</image:loc><image:title>StoneCold</image:title><image:caption>Boys...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5116.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dad </image:title><image:caption>My dad, over a partially buried circle that is thought to be the special grave site of an important person.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5123.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Humans through the years</image:title><image:caption>An old farmhouse sits below "Fingal's Cauldron," a double circle of stones.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5131.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Giant Stones</image:title><image:caption>These things are really huge!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5124.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Standing Stone</image:title><image:caption>This one stands alone now, with the three in the background.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5148.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Standing Stones</image:title><image:caption>The three main stones in the area, what remains of a larger circle.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5115.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Path through Mackrie Moor</image:title><image:caption>Looking back toward the water along the path to the Standing Stones</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5160.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mysterious Arran</image:title><image:caption>The Isle of Arran</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:54:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/22/flash-fall-bye-bye-summer/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5554.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Favorite Shoes</image:title><image:caption>A back-to-school purchase from high school (as seen in Seventeen Magazine--I felt very cool)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5547.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Royal Stewart</image:title><image:caption>Scottish wool blanket in Royal Stewart tartan--a cozy souvenier!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5542.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dapples of Fall</image:title><image:caption>Early leaves on my neighbor's tree!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/photo-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Doorstep</image:title><image:caption>Bright leaf and lavender</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:54:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/05/big-changes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_1050.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Old Clock in Zagreb, Croatia</image:title><image:caption>Time for a change!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_2994.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Toronto from the CN Tower</image:title><image:caption>Downtown Toronto from the CN Tower (yup, that's a rainbow, too!)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_5067.jpg</image:loc><image:title>At Culzean Castle</image:title><image:caption>Mike and I at Culzean Castle in Scotland</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:50:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/07/decision-making-is-rarely-clear-cut/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_0382.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Married!</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_0884.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Croatian Sea</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-07-18T11:34:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/16/feature-friday-reflections-on-september-11th/</loc><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:48:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/29/baltimore-a-self-styled-city/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_5745.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Old Bay</image:title><image:caption>Not just for crabs. Pizza, potatoes, pretty much anything that likes salt...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_5683.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Fallsway Spring Co.</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/314955_272086166145391_107428245944518_955659_1223408713_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin and Kieran at Loyola</image:title><image:caption>When  you see Loyola University Maryland's campus, you can understand why we never left.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/302960_272086609478680_107428245944518_955675_1525642766_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Patriotic Bride and Bridesmaids</image:title><image:caption>A Patriotic Wedding--RedWhite&amp;Blue!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/312837_667708864122_20101513_35392596_1571910425_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin and Kieran</image:title><image:caption>Congrats Erin and Kieran! So romantic!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/291722_272086269478714_107428245944518_955662_1932755389_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin and Kieran Inner Harbor Stroll</image:title><image:caption>Bridal Party stroll in the Inner Harbor</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:45:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/10/06/in-honor-of-steve-jobs-goodbye-powerbook-g4/</loc><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:42:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/10/14/feature-friday-food-for-a-month/</loc><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:36:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/11/11/the-miracles-of-moving/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/img_5943.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Becks Packing</image:title><image:caption>Exhausted after dismantling the dining room table</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/297921_675128016082_20101889_35465402_780790205_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Beastie</image:title><image:caption>Mike with our 26' foot U-Haul, Beastie.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/img_4555.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Little Brick House</image:title><image:caption>Seriously, cutest house ever. Sad, but I'm happy the new owner seems to be as obsessed with it as I was.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:35:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/12/06/disembodied/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Allison | Brown </image:title><image:caption>This is our store!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:35:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/01/09/planned-laziness-the-cure-to-the-lazy-trap/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/img_6062.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Our Couch</image:title><image:caption>Our couch, so comfy--it beckons!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/img_1737.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Gingerbreading</image:title><image:caption>Like making Gingerbread Houses!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/img_0058.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mike and Becks</image:title><image:caption>My boys know how to do lazy.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:35:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/03/09/breaking-bad-how-to-get-out-of-destructive-routines-and-habits/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/img_0209.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Stuffed Peppers</image:title><image:caption>Cooking, gardening, reading, writing, doing yoga, travelling... the list of things I'd rather fill my time with is endless! No time for lazy!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/img_0662.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sundial on the Franciscan Monastery in Hvar Town, Croatia</image:title><image:caption>It's no wonder I can't get up for my early routine when we're kept up for hours at night.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/img_5029.jpg</image:loc><image:title>London Eye and Big Ben</image:title><image:caption>Apparently, vacation is the best time to break a bad habit and replace it with a good one.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2025-12-30T04:42:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/03/21/sometimes-life-laughs-at-your-little-plans-an-example-from-my-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/scan-51.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>At cooking course in Chiang Mai, Thailand.</image:title><image:caption>I look pregnant? That's probably because I AM!!!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/scan-5.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>At cooking course in Chiang Mai, Thailand</image:title><image:caption>I look pregnant? That's probably because I AM!!!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/photo-2-e1332354869221.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ultrasound</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:34:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2013/01/29/the-self-styled-life-part-2/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/photo-38.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden</image:title><image:caption>Snuggled in her stroller with her buddy, Lapierre Lapin.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:33:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2013/02/26/1-step-forward-2-cranes-back/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/img_0998.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0998</image:title><image:caption>A baby is more conducive to practicing snuggles and breakfast in bed than yoga.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:31:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/02/12/dont-let-the-guilt-glitch-become-a-guilt-gulch/</loc><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:29:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/02/19/progressreport/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/img_8615.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tranquillity</image:title><image:caption>Tranquillity</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/img_1592.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1592</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:29:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/03/12/capturing-creativity-when-youre-really-really-busy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/mad-men-don-draper-001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mad-Men---Don-Draper-001</image:title><image:caption>Photograph: BBC/AMC/Lionsgate</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_0804.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ivan Mestrovic</image:title><image:caption>I'd love to sit and daydream. But it's not me right now! Sculpture by Ivan Mestrovic, at the Mestrovic Gallery in Split, Croatia.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/3767314032_7d74daf25e_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The Mabel Dodge Luhan House</image:title><image:caption>The Mabel Dodge Luhan House in Taos, NM. Photo by Marissa Bracke on Flickr.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/clockradio.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ClockRadio</image:title><image:caption>The clock radio I picked up for $3 at a garage sale so we could listen to CBC</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2021-10-19T09:47:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/03/14/self-help-please-seek-safely/</loc><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:28:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/07/the-adult-gap-year-sabbatical/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/photo-40.jpg</image:loc><image:title>My Travel Book Library</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/5382843839_416efb34d1_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>"Street Food Joy" </image:title><image:caption>Any of these Thai dishes probably cost from $.25- $.75! "Street Food Joy" by nist6dh on Flickr. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/casalogo-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Casalogo-3</image:title><image:caption>Casa de Musica, Portugal, Identity. ART DIRECTION: Stefan SagmeisterDESIGN: Matthias Ernstberger, Ralph Ammer, Quentin WaleschCREATED : 2007. See more here.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/traditional-vs-sabbatical-model.png</image:loc><image:title>Traditional vs Sabbatical Model</image:title><image:caption>Screenshots from Sagmeister's TED talk</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-12T12:05:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/15/homesickness-the-chronic-illness-of-an-expat/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/285015_656332781882_6985502_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>285015_656332781882_6985502_n</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/0001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0001</image:title><image:caption>The house I grew up in. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-01T00:27:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/22/wondering-what-to-be-when-you-grow-up-get-some-perspective/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/2435212284_364fb5848d_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Behind Door Number 3</image:title><image:caption>"Behind Door Number 3" by any jazz 65 on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-05T00:59:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/29/the-american-dream/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_0585-e1309319390294.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Honeymoon, Kotor, Montenegro</image:title><image:caption>Mike and I, quite satisfied after dinner in Kotor, Montenegro on our honeymoon.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2023-06-25T22:21:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/28/contradictions-in-characterizing-gen-y/</loc><lastmod>2014-04-24T03:21:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/04/04/the-self-styled-lifes-week-in-review/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/10176112_998310835122_168428599_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Puffy Eye</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-24T02:17:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/03/27/once-youre-a-parent-youre-definitely-an-adult/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/3965754885_59c6cff26f_o.gif</image:loc><image:title>Children in Costumes, 1952</image:title><image:caption>How I picture my parents as children. From the Seattle Municipal Archives</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_0977.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0977</image:title><image:caption>Mom and Baby. 30 Years -- 6 months</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/yellow-children_s-room__20141_chro09a_01_thumb_pe317584.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Yellow children’s room__20141_chro09a_01_thumb_PE317584</image:title><image:caption>The kids' table (from IKEA)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-19T02:30:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/13/a-major-award-but-its-not-a-leg-lamp/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_0261.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Wedding Day</image:title><image:caption>See, I'm married, too, and it's awesome!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_2157.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2157</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/photo1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>NY Pizza</image:title><image:caption>Like Real NY pizza (this was my dinner Friday night)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/ny-pizza.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>NY Pizza</image:title><image:caption>I am passionate about good pizza... but what does that mean in terms of a career?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/versatilebloggeraward.png</image:loc><image:title>versatilebloggeraward</image:title><image:caption>There it is!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-05T17:16:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/07/the-dreams-that-arent-and-why-they-still-matter/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/mikejeanmeet-e1307382773104.jpg</image:loc><image:title>MikeJeanMeet</image:title><image:caption>Mike and I when we were actually meeting for the first time.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/the-globe-pub.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The Globe Pub</image:title><image:caption>Bridget's flat is above the real Globe Pub. I can't find images of the inside--just go watch the movie!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-05T17:13:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/03/collections/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4631.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Passport Stamps</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Red Rocks in Sedona, AZ</image:title><image:caption>Red Rocks in Sedona, AZ--beautiful even on my iPhone</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4632.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Passport</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_46351.jpg</image:loc><image:title>House &amp; Home stack</image:title><image:caption>But I can't cut up the H&amp;H's; they're too pretty.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_46341-e1307105468435.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Clippings Notebook</image:title><image:caption>Magazine clippings. The act of sorting is cathartic.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4634.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Clipping Notebook</image:title><image:caption>My magazine clipping notebook. Sorting is cathartic.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_4635.jpg</image:loc><image:title>House &amp; Home stack</image:title><image:caption>I can't cut up the H&amp;H's; they're too pretty.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-05T17:04:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/05/30/you-are-what-you-do-or-are-you/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/photo-e1306787109203.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Becks</image:title><image:caption>Who wouldn't want to hang out with my dog, Becks?!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/nadal-r-lunes-web03-e1306786786544.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rafa at 2011 French Open</image:title><image:caption>Rafa at French Open, from www.rafaelnadal.com/</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-05T17:01:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/05/10/stretching-to-sanity-yoga-as-challenge-and-succor/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/kirby-crystals-e1304685665452.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kirby Crystals</image:title><image:caption>Kirby crystals in my window</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/img_4536.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tree Pose</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/img_4541.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Crane</image:title><image:caption>Crane Pose: a work in progress but at least I can stay in it...</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-05T16:56:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/02/26/measuringhappiness/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/linden-lapierre.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Linden LaPierre</image:title><image:caption>Happiness can be as simple as hugging your bunny. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/1510536_966497504292_1456907500_n1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1510536_966497504292_1456907500_n</image:title><image:caption>"Here, Mom. Have some carrot peel." Thanks, kid.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-03-07T03:05:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2014/02/04/the-guilt-glitch/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/1510536_966497504292_1456907500_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1510536_966497504292_1456907500_n</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/5235848024_aeeb5e3860_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>"The porch, evening" By Lars Ploughman on Flickr</image:title><image:caption>"The porch, evening" By Lars Ploughman on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-02-17T17:24:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2013/06/18/straight-a-adult/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/39283_856972288702_725735797_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Yogurt Baby</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/img_0915.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sleeping Baby</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-06-26T03:06:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/03/06/habits-and-routines-the-good-the-bad-the-non-existent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/img_5125.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5125</image:title><image:caption>Deep grooves in the stones at Machrie Moor on the Isle of Arran in Scotland</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/img_0715.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Murvica Guesthouse, Jelsa, Hvar Island Croatia</image:title><image:caption>Part of why I love mornings: I'm a breakfast fanatic.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/img_5306.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Chimney Pots in Ayr</image:title><image:caption>The pleasant repetition of chimney pots on the roofs in Scotland</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-03-07T16:02:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/02/10/feature-friday-tips-for-a-lovely-and-delicious-valentines-day-from-goldies-table-matters/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/396119_695949784092_20101889_35586620_1306163864_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dining In</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-02-10T22:30:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/02/07/baking-recipes-included/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/184200_605022552992_20101889_34815566_4142709_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rosemary Bread</image:title><image:caption>A more adventurous attempt at Braided Rosemary Bread</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/photo-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>7 Grain Bread</image:title><image:caption>A perfect loaf, right from the oven!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/photo-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raspberry Scones</image:title><image:caption>Not the PVBS's, but Raspberry-Almond Scones in the making</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>7 Grain Bread</image:title><image:caption>7 Grain Bread</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-02-09T16:23:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/02/03/feature-friday-30-things-to-start-doing-for-yourself-from-marc-and-angel-hack-life/</loc><lastmod>2012-02-03T18:46:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/02/02/mo-passions-mo-problems/</loc><lastmod>2012-02-03T22:21:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/01/25/guest-post-5-pro-tips-for-financial-fitness/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/img_4866.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Money Jars</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-04T19:59:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/01/20/feature-friday-how-to-be-more-interesting-in-10-simple-steps/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/mail-4.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Becks</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-01-20T18:51:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/01/13/feature-friday-top-5-regrets-of-the-dying/</loc><lastmod>2013-08-04T06:07:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/01/11/i-love-housework-but-dont-tell-my-husband/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/img_2775.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Becks on Beach</image:title><image:caption>Apparently the key to shiny hair is shedding constantly!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/mail-3.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Mike Dish Pile-up</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/mail-2.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Cleaning Tools</image:title><image:caption>I actually do love to clean, but could that be a career I do forever?</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-01-20T18:46:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/01/06/feature-friday-more-new-years-thoughts-from-the-kind-life/</loc><lastmod>2012-01-06T21:55:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2012/01/04/how-to-complain-without-being-annoying/</loc><lastmod>2012-01-05T20:06:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/12/30/feature-friday-more-thoughts-on-new-years-resolutions/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/184789_604769510092_20101889_34809560_2938100_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mmm Breakfast</image:title><image:caption>Happiness on a Saturday morning.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/img_5943.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_5943</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-05-29T03:43:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/12/29/new-years-resolve-or-reflect/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/img_5980-497x331.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Our Storefront</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/2168935-0.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Christian Louboutin Déjà Vu Heels</image:title><image:caption>I put Googly Eyes on all my Couture Footwear! (photo by ChristianLouboutin.com)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/396119_695949784092_20101889_35586620_1306163864_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Christmas Evening</image:title><image:caption>Our Quiet Christmas Evening</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-01-08T16:35:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/10/27/be-back-soon-if-moving-doesnt-ruin-me-first/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/20111027-143932.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20111027-143932.jpg</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-10-28T07:17:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/10/19/go-for-it-because-were-all-just-going-to-die-anyway/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/img_4954.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Find your wings</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/img_0471.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Leap</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/img_0401.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Walled Dubrovnik</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-27T03:33:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/10/11/throwing-the-yoghurt-on-feeling-overwhelmed/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/img_5829.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Soothing?</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/img_5831.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Blurry Grapefruit</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/img_5832.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Yogurt</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-10-27T19:12:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/10/07/feature-friday-lessons-for-writers-serious-and-otherwise/</loc><lastmod>2011-10-12T14:53:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/10/03/letting-go-destroying-diaries/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/img_2757.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Campfire</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-12-02T02:48:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/30/feature-friday-do-pictures-of-perfect-celebrities-get-you-down/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-30T13:45:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/27/why-does-all-the-sht-hit-the-fan-at-the-same-time/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_1753.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ice Car</image:title><image:caption>Our crappy car, Canadified.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-10-12T14:52:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/23/feature-friday-shots-of-happiness-on-morningstar-project/</loc><lastmod>2011-10-12T14:55:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/21/gold-stars-praise-as-a-powerful-self-discovery-tool/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/photo-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The Phantom Tollbooth</image:title><image:caption>Permanently on my bookshelf: Norton Juster's "The Phantom Tollbooth". My 7th grade book report on it got a glowing review.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/photo-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Reminder</image:title><image:caption>Right under my Master's diploma--my Model UN Outstanding Delegate award for being on the Press Corps. From high school. In 1999.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/photo-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bad Becks</image:title><image:caption>Don't be a guilty dog.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-09-01T08:19:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/13/busy-is-best/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_5032.jpg</image:loc><image:title>All the time in the World.</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_5131.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Stretching at the Standing Stones</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/img_5100.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Above Culzean Castle looking toward Arran</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-28T02:14:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/09/feature-friday-where-did-we-come-from/</loc><lastmod>2011-10-30T02:25:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/09/02/feature-friday-what-exactly-is-slow-love-on-slow-love-life/</loc><lastmod>2011-09-02T15:35:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/31/have-i-graduated-from-the-kid%e2%80%99s-table-yet/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_3117.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bermuda Birds</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_4633.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Passport Stamps</image:title><image:caption>Sometimes I'd rather be traveling...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_0172.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Checking the Rings</image:title><image:caption>"Um, does this mean we're married?"</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-03T18:30:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/29/everything-in-order/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5218.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Edinburgh Sidewalk</image:title><image:caption>In the sidewalk in Edinburgh, near St. Giles' Cathedral</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/photo-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Chronicles of Narnia</image:title><image:caption>Mike's very old copy of the series.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_5204.jpg</image:loc><image:title>St. Margaret's Chapel, Edinburgh Castle</image:title><image:caption>Like the rather solid foundations of 900 yr. old St. Margaret's Chapel within Edinburgh Castle</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-01T02:56:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/26/feature-friday-a-toast-to-conceptualism-by-annie-guyon/</loc><lastmod>2011-08-27T14:54:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/08/24/to-quote-or-not-to-quote/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/photo-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Diary quote page</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-09-09T13:48:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/07/19/impatience-is-it-vacation-time-yet/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/img_1149.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Airport in Zagreb</image:title><image:caption>Waiting in an airport... that will be me again tomorrow! </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-08-08T15:18:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/07/12/staying-on-the-path-the-mangala-sutta/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/buddhist-blessing.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Buddhist Blessing</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/sukhothai-e1310526717623.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Sukhothai</image:title><image:caption>Buddha peeking out from some ruins in Sukhothai, Thailand</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/novice-cliff-diving-e1310525621447.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Novice Cliff Diving</image:title><image:caption>A Novice (monk-in-training) jumping in for a swim near Chiang Mai, Thailand</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-12-06T12:21:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/06/23/think-it-or-do-it-debunking-the-law-of-attraction/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_1845-e1412825428364.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cabo Send Off</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/kirby-main.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kirby </image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/seek-logo-hi-res.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SEEK logo </image:title><image:caption>Check us out: www.seeksafely.org</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/img_3118.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bermuda</image:title><image:caption>Bermuda, perhaps?</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-06-29T23:05:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/05/20/end-of-the-school-year-career-assessment-time/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/mapp1.png</image:loc><image:title>MAPP</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/mapp.png</image:loc><image:title>MAPP</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-05-24T01:45:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/04/19/conversations-with-my-mom-on-her-self-styled-life-part-1/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/img_01442-e1303264173904.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mom and I in Limo</image:title><image:caption>My mom and I on our way to my wedding.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/img_01441.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mom and Jean in Limo</image:title><image:caption>My Mom and I on our way to my wedding!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/img_0144.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mom and I in Limo</image:title><image:caption>My mom and I in the limo on my wedding day!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-07T06:27:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/23/living-the-dream-or-dreaming-of-living/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/34648_581599797382_20101555_34194537_1349632_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Singing in a bar with a random cover band</image:title><image:caption>Not quitting my day job (but it does make me happy)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-05-04T01:48:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/04/22/conversations-with-my-mom-part-2/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/img_0542.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Fort in Kotor</image:title><image:caption>Winding path up to the fort over Kotor, Montenegro</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-04-22T15:58:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/04/17/follow-up-to-freshly-pressed-procrastination/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/vika-gruvan-vika-artur.png</image:loc><image:title>vika-gruvan-vika-artur</image:title><image:caption>Vika Gruvan (top) / Vika Artur (legs)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/freshly-pressed1.png</image:loc><image:title>Freshly Pressed!</image:title><image:caption>Woo Hoo!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/freshly-pressed.png</image:loc><image:title>Freshly Pressed!</image:title><image:caption>Woo Hoo!!!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-04-20T02:48:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/15/the-job-career-paradox/</loc><lastmod>2011-04-16T07:21:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/04/09/reminder-from-a-self-styled-farmer/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/img_1118.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Idyllic Farmland</image:title><image:caption>Idyllic Farmland in Croatia</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/n20101889_32066841_4795.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Urban Herb Garden</image:title><image:caption>My Urban Herb Garden... as far as my small-scale farm has gotten...</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-04-09T19:29:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/21/jane-eyre-a-self-styled-woman/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>"Jane Eyre"</image:title><image:caption>My Pretty Value Village copy of "Jane Eyre"</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-17T10:38:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/2011/03/05/its-raining-its-pouring-soaking-through-the-kitchen-flooring/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/20110305-071748.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20110305-071748.jpg</image:title><image:caption>note how the wood is curling up at the bottom of the door</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/20110305-071728.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20110305-071728.jpg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/20110305-071714.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20110305-071714.jpg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/20110305-071645.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20110305-071645.jpg</image:title><image:caption>See that bucket? Full of water. That bag of tea lights in the water-logged box? Full of water.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/20110305-071626.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20110305-071626.jpg</image:title><image:caption>this is where the water normally drips in if it's raining hard enough</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-03-08T02:56:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://theselfstyledlife.com</loc><changefreq>daily</changefreq><priority>1.0</priority><lastmod>2025-12-30T04:42:32+00:00</lastmod></url></urlset>
